God's Perfect Faithfulness

A beautiful sunrise early in the morning, on our way to Akagera Park

"I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." (Galatians 2:20)

I don't think I've ever lived in a place that scares me as much as Rwanda. When I say this, I'm only referring to the moments when we're driving in a car, otherwise, I feel completely safe. We have seen a few bad accidents (mostly involving moto taxis) and heard of a few more tragic moto/car accidents, which continues to prevent us from jumping on the back of one to get across town.  Needless to say, I've been very shy about getting behind a wheel here. The driving is very different. But this aspect of life is only helping me to cling closer to our God, who does protect and promises His spirit to be with us as we trust in Him. I'm thankful for His protection and we continue to pray for this while in Rwanda. 

We have so much to be thankful for here and God has provided for us in many ways. I want to thank you for your prayer support of us. We have felt this comfort and know many are praying for us. Please continue to lift us up in prayer (for strength, endurance, protection, wisdom, discernment) as we're finding we need God's covering here in different ways than back in the U.S. 

Some of our praises include finding a wonderful house to rent! It's so peaceful, with a beautiful yard, in a quiet neighborhood, and perfect for us to come home to at the end of the day. We also got a sweet dog named Jumu (which was unexpected) but she's been nice company and a good guard dog. We have been meeting some great people here, a lot of Christian people as well, many of who I'm sure, will become good friends for us. We feel very settled at this point, physically and emotionally, which helps us feel very at peace in God's plan for us here. We got a great car that feels safe and reliable! We were gently reminded by the Lord (pretty soon after landing here) the importance of staying in prayer and in the Bible together daily, after experiencing some more difficult days in our marriage. But praise Him for that reminder! Though we should be doing this anywhere, it's especially hard when you're in a new country, overwhelmed often, frequently tired and easily stressed, giving you little patience and grace for one another. This lesson was reinforced by a Christian missionary (who we actually bought the car from) who told us he felt like God wanted him to share about our need for daily devotion/prayer here and encourage us in our marriage, discussing the reality of spiritual attack on your marriage when you serve together. We were so uplifted and this came in the perfect time.

  
I am also thankful for a couple of serving opportunities I've been able to be involved with for the past few weeks. One is the African Bagel Company (which Garrett mentioned in his previous post), which is a women's training center, aimed at helping vulnerable women in tough situations, gain practical cooking skills that they can later use to help sustain themselves and their families/children. Many of them are providing for multiple people in their family, some are single moms, some are orphans or have lost most people in their families and some were very sick when they came to ABC. They employ about 25 women for varying lengths of time (until they "graduate" from the program, learning all they can at ABC) and these women produce amazing food including pizzas, donuts, bagels, salsa, hummus, tortillas, cookies, cakes, etc. ABC is mostly frequented by expat customers including ourselves (as Garrett mentioned). These foods have provided comfort to us at home as the grocery selection in Rwanda is very limited.  The women do daily devotions and worship together in the mornings (which I've been able to be a part when I'm there) and although they speak all Kinyarwandan, one of the women who speaks English will kindly translate for me to be a part of it. :) They are taught other life skills by people who come through to teach classes to them, develop friendships with each other and seem to really gain a new sense of confidence in themselves in learning cooking and general life skills. The couple that started ABC just returned to the U.S (after living here for 7 years), but another couple has stepped in to run it. It's been a blessing to me, getting to know these awesome people who are a part of this and also getting to spend time and get to know the women who work there. They are wonderful and have been so warm to me. A couple of them sat me down and were so perplexed that Garrett and I have been married for two years but yet still don't have any children (and have planned not to have children yet), as they said when they get married, they want to have kids as soon as possible and if they aren't able to, people start talking about you, like you must be sick, be cursed by the devil or something is wrong with you that you aren't getting pregnant immediately. It's been very interesting to live in a new culture and learn aspects about the people that are just so different that ours. It's been teaching me a lot. 

The other awesome opportunity that I came across was an OB clinic that meets in a small mud-brick building in one of the slum neighborhoods, twice weekly. It is funded in part by the church that we have visited a few times since being here. On Tuesdays, women come for prenatal visits and Thursdays they come for postpartum checks for themselves and their newborn babies. It's been so interesting learning about the many challenges these pregnant women face here and learning new aspects of the culture through the women who come to the clinic. The newborn babies (on Thursdays) are of course SO BEAUTIFUL and I have loved helping with any teaching we can provide them on breastfeeding, nutritional needs for mom and baby and other general health things to watch for. This clinic was started by a Canadian midwife who lives here with her family, a wonderful Christian woman, who felt like an instant friend to me as she has a passion for women and OB and has such a warm, kind heart. There are a few other wonderful women who also help with this. Jocelyn (the midwife) has such a gift in working with these women. I feel so blessed by this already and have enjoyed the fellowship with the women who are working here. It's also such a praise because I was praying for an opportunity to do something in OB nursing here in Rwanda, and I've already been helping out at this clinic for the past few weeks!  Again, only Kinyarwandan is spoken with the women at the clinic and I'm hoping that this will help reinforce me learning the language faster. Jocelyn told me the other day, that she is helping the church with the building of a new women's hospital in town that will have delivery rooms as well and it should be opening next year. She said I could definitely come work there/volunteer when it's finished! So I'm excited about that possibility as I would absolutely LOVE a chance to start helping with deliveries and learning that side of OB. 


We were able to see some beautiful animals at Akagera National Park, this last weekend. It's so amazing to see these animals up close. It was so much fun to see giraffes, zebras, hippos and real African wildlife in their natural habitat. We have loved being in Rwanda so far and look forward to seeing more.


We feel so sure that God has us here right now and know that God is using us to bless others with his love. Please pray that we are consistent in shining a light for Him. Pray that we can continue to let God work in the places of our life that need working.

We are so thankful to Jesus for two wonderful years of marriage, that we just celebrated last week! We were able to go out for a nice dinner together to celebrate. I feel like we've been married for longer than two years, as so much has happened already. We feel blessed to have had such a fun first two years of marriage, learning some good lessons in communication and the importance of always seeking Him together. God has been so good to us. And we look forward to many more together! 


Love and blessings to you all. We are thankful for your support of us!

Our anniversary dinner at "Republika" restaurant